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Family and Divorce law in South Africa - A Comprehensive Guide
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    • Children's Act 38 of 2005
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    • The New Domestic Violence Act 14 of 2021
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    • Evicting a Spouse
    • Being married to a Narcissist.
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    • What is Coercive Control?
    • What is Emotional Abuse
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      • Economic Abuse
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About Divorce and Family Law Attorney Bertus Preller

Bertus Preller Family Law Attorney
Bertus Preller is not only the author of two well-known books "Everyone's Guide to Divorce and Separation," published by Random House, and "The Unexpected Counsellor" that is available on Takealot and Amazon, but also the author of South Africa's premier blog on family and divorce law, FamilyLaws. He has received multiple accolades, including being named Family Lawyer of the Year in South Africa by ACQ5 Finance magazine in 2015 and Best Divorce Lawyer in South Africa by Business Times in 2023. Currently practicing at Maurice Phillips Wisenberg in Cape Town, Bertus is also a seasoned Mediator and Arbitrator.

Having earned his legal education from the University of the Free State and the University of Johannesburg, Bertus was admitted to the bar in 1989. With over three decades of legal experience, he expanded his expertise into mediation and arbitration in 1996, serving as a Part-time Commissioner at the CCMA and acting as an Appeals Authority for the South African Police Services. His journey as an attorney has seen him representing clients and making significant contributions in various courts, from the Magistrates Court and High Court to the esteemed Constitutional Court. This vast experience not only underscores his comprehensive understanding of the legal landscape but also his adaptability and proficiency in handling a diverse range of cases. His practice focuses primarily on Family and Divorce Law, and he represents clients across South Africa.

Bertus is a frequently cited authority on Family Law, appearing in various media outlets including the Sunday Times, Business Times, and magazines like Noseweek, Keur, and Women's Health. He has also been a guest on television shows such as SABC's 3 Talk and Morning Live, as well as the 5FM Breakfast show. His clientele, a blend of artists, celebrities, athletes, and high-net-worth individuals, is a testament to his reputation for crafting tailored strategies for each unique case. Bertus's distinction is further exemplified by his out-of-the-box approach, consistently bringing creative strategies and novel solutions to intricate legal challenges. This mindset led to the inception of iDivorce, South Africa's first online DIY Divorce platform in 2006, showcasing his commitment to leveraging modern solutions to make legal processes more accessible to South Africans.

His legal expertise encompasses a wide range of areas including Divorce Law, Family Law, Divorce Mediation, Parenting Plans, Parental Responsibilities and Rights, Custody issues, same-sex marriages, rights of unmarried fathers, child abduction and Hague Convention cases, domestic violence issues, and international divorce law. Moreover, his dedication to staying updated is mirrored in his blog, FamilyLaws, which provides fresh insights on the latest Family and Divorce Law scenarios in South Africa.


Some notable cases and articles where Bertus appeared were:
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  • AA v LA [2013] ZAWCHC 168
  • B v B [2018] ZAWCHC 171
  • J v L [2019] ZAFSHC 225
  • H M v L M [2020] ZAWCHC 24
  • SACCAWU and Others v Irvin & Johnson Limited Seafoods Division Fish Processing 2000 (3) SA 705; 2000 (8) BCLR 886
  • AVW v SVW and Others (3118/2021) [2022] ZAWCHC 74
  • E.W v V.H (12272/2022) [2023] ZAWCHC 58
  • BLUE DOT PROPERTIES 391 (PTY) LTD V H.G AND OTHERS (1926/2023) [2023] ZAWCHC 269

​In today's fast-paced and complicated world, one area of law that can be particularly daunting is family law. Whether you are facing a divorce, custody battle, or child maintenance dispute, navigating through the complex legal landscape can be overwhelming. That is where a skilled family law attorney can make all the difference. With their expertise and experience, a family law attorney can provide invaluable guidance and support during these challenging times. They can help you understand your rights and obligations, negotiate on your behalf, and ensure that your best interests are protected. From helping you gather the necessary documentation to presenting your case in court, a knowledgeable family law attorney can handle the intricacies of your legal matter, allowing you to focus on what matters most – your family. Don't let the complexities of family law overwhelm you. With the help of a dedicated and skilled attorney, you can navigate through the legal process smoothly and reach a favorable resolution. Trust the expertise of a family law attorney to advocate for your rights and help you achieve the best possible outcome.
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  • Home
  • Divorce
    • The Reasons for Divorce
    • The Divorce Process in South Africa
    • Rule 41A Mediation
    • The Marital Property Regimes >
      • Marriage out of Community of Property, new case
      • Marriage in Community of Property
      • Marriage out of community without accrual >
        • Understanding Post-1984 Marriages
      • Marriage out of community with the inclusion of the accrual
      • Anti-Dissipation Interdicts Divorce
      • Universal Partnerships
      • Antenuptial Contracts
      • Register Antenuptial Contract Online
      • Changing your matrimonial regime.
      • Postnuptial Contracts
    • Division of Assets at Divorce >
      • Forfeiture of Assets in a Divorce
    • Evicting your spouse divorce
    • Retirement Funds and Divorce
    • Living Annuities
    • Hiding Assets in a Divorce
    • Trusts and Divorce >
      • Can I hide assets in Trust?
    • Divorce a Missing Spouse
    • Adultery and Suing a Third Party
    • Domicile in Divorce Cases
    • International Divorces in South Africa
    • Expat South African Divorce
    • International Jurisdiction
    • Spousal Visas
    • International Divorce Law >
      • UK Divorce Laws
    • Choosing a Divorce Attorney
    • On-line Divorce
    • Lawyer Fees and Costs
    • Important Aspects of a Divorce
    • Divorcing a Narcistic Spouse
    • Dealing with Emotions During Divorce and Separation
    • Divorce Statistics
    • Divorce Therapy and Counselling >
      • Marriage and Relationship Therapists
    • Rebuilding Your Financial Life
    • Divorce Attorney Cape Town
    • Ingredients of a successful relationship
    • What are the elements of a successful marriage?
    • Uncontested Divorce
    • Uncontested Divorce - What Happens on the Court Day?
  • Maintenance
    • Spousal maintenance
    • How to calculate Child Maintenance?
    • Maintenance Defaulters
    • What Happens if you don't pay child maintenance
    • Child Maintenance Frequently Asked Questions
    • Rule 43 Interim Maintenance Pending Divorce >
      • Can I appeal a Rule 43 Order
      • Apply for Costs in Rule 43
      • Financial Disclosure Rule 43
      • Rule 43 Maintenance
    • The Maintenance Manual
    • Grand Parents and Maintenance
    • Variation of Maintenance due to loss of employment
    • Contempt of Court Maintenance
  • Children
    • Section 28 of the Children's Act
    • Relocation and Child Abduction >
      • Frequently Asked Questions about Child Relocation
      • Child Relocation to New Zealand
    • The Hague Convention >
      • Child Participation in South African Family Law and the Hague Convention
      • International Child Custody Law South Africa
      • Hague Applications and Domestic Violence
      • Mirror Orders and the Hague Convention
      • Tips on international child custody
    • Unmarried Parents and the Law
    • Unmarried Fathers Rights
    • Parenting Plans >
      • Parenting Plan
      • Conflict and dispute-resolution mechanisms
    • The non-custodian parent and contact
    • Appointing a Guardian in a Will
    • Introducing a new partner to your child
    • Refusal of Contact
    • Suspending Parental Rights
    • The Law on Grandparents Rights over Children
    • Parental Alienation >
      • Alienating Children
      • Parental Alienation Imprisonment
      • What is the effect of Parental Alienation on children?
    • Living Arrangements
    • What effect does divorce have on children?
    • The Voice of the Child in Divorce
    • Facilitation
    • Joint decisions about your child
    • Paternity Disputes
    • The Family Advocate
    • Parenting during separartion
    • Children's Act 38 of 2005
  • Abuse
    • Domestic Violence Legislation and Case Law
    • The New Domestic Violence Act 14 of 2021
    • Gender Based Violence in South Africa
    • Domestic Abuse Forms
    • Evicting a Spouse
    • Being married to a Narcissist.
    • Divorcing an Abusive Spouse
    • What is Coercive Control?
    • What is Emotional Abuse
    • What is Sexual Abuse
    • What is Financial Abuse >
      • Economic Abuse
    • What is Stalking
    • What is Verbal Abuse
    • What is Spiritual Abuse
    • What is Social Abuse
    • Revenge Porn
    • Interdict Intimate photos
    • Steps to obtain a Protection Order
    • Domestic Violence eBook
    • The Protection Order
    • Who Qualifies for a Protection Order
    • Breaching a Protection Order
    • Questions on Domestic Abuse
    • Signs of an Abusive Relationship
    • Domestic Violence Information
    • Harassment >
      • Harassment Forms
  • Cohabitation
    • Universal Partnerships in South African Cohabitation
    • Maintenance and Cohabitation
    • Interim Maintenance and Cohabitation
    • Sample Cohabitation Agreement
    • Engagement and the law
  • Formalities for marriage in south africa
    • South Africa's New Marriage Bill: A Step Towards Equality and Inclusion
    • Same Sex
  • Family Law eBooks
  • Family Law Links
    • The South African Court System
    • Court Rolls
    • Family Law Legislation
    • Family Law Blog
    • New Family Law Cases
    • Register for the Online Family Law Course
  • About the Author
  • Contact
  • Charities